How Newly Married Parents Neglect Their First Kids
Know that it won’t be perfect
There is no point in brooding over the way things could have been. Remember that, while this situation is hard, it would have been even harder for your children if you’d stayed in your first unhappy marriage, and had them witness your fights forever. Know that one day, your first set of children and second set may be friends, and they may love that they have such a large family they can depend on. Your kids will grow up, become adults, and realize that this was a struggle for you, too.