“Lots of people want to ride in the limo, but what you want is someone who will take the bus with youwhen the limo breaks down.”
You may have recently read YourTango.com’s great tips on setting appropriate boundaries and not allowing yourself to be taken advantage of (“Stop Being Used: Boundaries to Protect Yourself”). But what about when you’re unaware of people’s ulterior motives? Just because someone allows themselves to be used, doesn’t justify taking their kindness for weakness, but too many times people manipulate an opportunity for romance or friendship for their own personal gain.
I’m sure Oprah Winfrey has had her fair share of crossing paths with people who otherwise wouldn’t think twice about her if she wasn’t a billionaire queen of media. So if anyone knows how to spot someone that will be hesitant to get that bus pass, it’s her. If you can identify with any of the following signs, it may be time to toss that relationship out at the next exit: