“Girl, You’ve Got a Big ‘Ol Juicy Booty!” 7 Ways Men Hurt Their Chances With Women

September 17th, 2012 - By Valerie J Charles

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With the growth of relationship experts and advice, it’s quite rare that you will find that the tips doled out are catering to the do’s-and-don’ts of men. Women are told what to expect, how to behave, what to say and when to say it in order to keep a man, but men are told very little if anything at all. And ladies, we know, relationships are work and call for the full participation of both parties. It is not only up to women to be the keepers of knowledge of what makes love and relationships work, while the men get to run around doing what ever tickles their fancy.

So, to help balance all of this information, I present to you seven things men should refrain from doing to keep the attention of the women they want in the “courting” phase. These are matters that women tend to discuss amongst themselves, but I think it best that we allow the men a chance to learn of these nasty habits in order to prevent any possible love mishaps.

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  • Candacey Doris

    Than you! Needy is definitely a turn off. They don’t like it in us, why can’t the see it in themselves? 10 texts in 3 minutes is not hot.

  • bigdawgman

    WHO IS TURNED ON BY THAT???? If a dude pulled it out on a date, wouldn’t that be some kind of sexual harassment? Why is it ok on a phone? Dang, I guess I missed that meeting….

  • bigdawgman

    GUYS DO THAT???? Oh hell to the naw! The thirst is real out there! Do dudes know that’s the same as whipping it out on a date? smdh

  • Hello_Kitty81

    I was on a date with my fiance the other day and we went to my place to spend time together and when I was unlocking my door, 3 brothas hanging out and one of them yelled at us saying “Yo I bet that white boy can’t please that round a** like a brotha can!” Him and I looked at them and was like SMH, *Kanye Shrug* and went in. He even asked my why black men are too interested in our backsides and I was like “ask my guy friends and let me know when you find out”.

  • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

    I personally prefer to hear men talk about their exes. I do not play innocent about the fact that I have not always dated the best people. It is important for me to know how a man talks about his ex(es) for me to know 1. Whether or not he is over her 2. Glimpses of the “real” truth about what went down in the previous relationship 3. What he learned about himself and his dating expectations from that relationship and how he will be different for the next one.

  • E McArthur

    i usually just send one back….i woke up at 6 am to a pic like that and was so bad I googled for one on my laptop real quick, took a pic, sent it, and went to bed…he never called me again

    • Kay

      Lmfaooo Dead

    • Candacey Doris

      I’m going to do that.. Thanks.

  • gmarie

    idk I didnt see anything wrong with the questions in the “asking too many questions” section. It’s all about getting to know each other right? lol how will we get to know each other if questions arent asked?

    • Reese

      It’s about the kind of questions being asked. There is a such thing as getting to know one and another and then there’s a such thing as just being plain invasive and annoying. I like getting to know someone through conversation not question asking.

    • Veratta Pegram-Floyd

      I would also agree with Reese and add that it depends on the forum of question asking as well. For example, many people are online dating or are on social websites that have a dating component. If I have put in the effort to make a personal profile with the information already on it, I don’t think that I should have to answer the same questions basic question that I have already outlined on my profile/page.

    • bigdawgman

      Depends on how they’re asked probably. If you keep firing them out there like a police interrogation, I’m sure that’s a turn off. And if you’re only asking information and not giving any, that’s too one-sided. #my2cents

  • Nope

    I should write the men’s version of this. It would be short and sweet: Your opinion about what I should do with my car/house/wardrobe/career/recipes………. no one asked you!

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    • 305MovesLikeDagger

      haha I am glad I am not the only person who skip reading articles because I have to go 4 to 5 pages. The autoplaying videos are just as annoying.

    • Nope

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        i do too. I guess many people don’t know about either one. If you have Google Chrome download an Ad Blocker it works miracles.

        • Nope

          Yup, and autopager is another good one that shows multiple pages on one page, without having to click through.

          • Marco

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        Pop-up blockers don’t stop every pop-up.

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  • L-Boogie

    Stay single. So much easier.