Listen Up Fellas: 9 Reasons Women Don’t Talk To You At Bars

July 27th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Man flirting with two women"

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You’re hitting on everyone

A woman wants to feel special. She wants to feel you hand selected her out of the mass of females at the bar to talk to. She is not going to feel that way if she watches you for just ten minutes and sees you try to pick up on anything with pheromones. It’s fine if you’re on the hunt, but women cannot know that. Be subtle in your approaches. Don’t let one girl who you hit on see you hit on another one. If you can, avoid her even seeing you speaking to other females. Women are on the defense when out, and they look for a reason to write you off. Don’t give them one by being the sleaze of the bar.

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  • Kayo

    “She wants to feel you hand selected her out of the mass of females at the bar to talk to.”
    “Walking up to a group of females and just saying…”

    I mean, are you talking about women at a bar or animals in the jungle?

  • CA Pullen

    I strongly agree with the last one. Don’t step to me when you are drunk. It is a turn off. That is one of the reason why I don’t go to bars or clubs. Most of the guys approach me are always drunk and smelling like a wine and beer factory. They need to move to the next woman that may like men stepping to them when they are drunk.

    • imahrtbrkbeat

      That happened to me last year on my birthday. Then the guy asked if I liked the song “Birthday Sex.” Thanks for making my 27th memorable…and not in a good way.