Every woman who’s thinking about tying the knot has had a moment when she realized that “he” was never going to be able to be part of a “we.” Whether it was something he said, an outrageous thing he did, or being sick and tired of that argument you’ve had for the umpteenth time, it brought out all kind of red flags. As in, “Girl, maybe you should stop wasting your time” flags.
Sometimes feeling worthy of a bigger and better commitment means ducking out of a relationship — and then giving him time to reevaluate his feelings and get himself together. A little shaking up and a reminder of your worth could be the key to finding that the man of your dreams was there all along, and even he didn’t know it. But sometimes, a red flag is just a clear signal that things will probably go from bad to worse. Feel free to keep searching for Mr. Right if you feel funny about the following.