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There’s something going on with male hookups. They seem to get off on not just, well, getting off, but also pretending that this whole thing is more than sex. It’s almost like they want to practice their boyfriend skills for when they meet the woman they’d like to date seriously. Or maybe they’re power addicts who love seeing the way they confuse you and frazzle you when they act like way more than a hookup. Not only is it confusing but it’s also annoying. When your hookup behaves in ways outside the realm of a booty call, it puts pressure on you. Now you’re thinking, “Do I have to do all of this too if I want consistent sex with this guy? Is it rude if I don’t jump through all the same hoops he is?” Ugh. Why can’t things be simple?Here’s why your casual hookup is confusing you.
