Your Man Should Not be the Center of Your Universe

Men can also easily sense desperation.  If having a man is the main goal in your life, your actions will tell on you even if you try your hardest to not convey so.  When a woman alters her whole life to accommodate a man she has just met, it gives him the most power within the relationship, because he knows that he can live his life as he pleases and you will adjust yours to convenience him.  When you’re falling in love it can make you feel like you want to give that person the world, but be careful and practice discipline so that your feelings come across as affection and not obsession.  How you handle yourself in the early stages of the relationship sets the tone for the whole relationship.

In no way am I against relationships, I just believe that not every woman needs one all of the time to feel whole or happy.  When you take responsibility for how you feel about yourself, your high self-esteem becomes something that no one else can take away from you.  It requires some deep introspection and honesty which can be difficult for some women, but a few of these pointers can help you get started: