3. You’re more sexually confident.
If you’re not waiting until you’re married to get familiar with your inner freak, by thirty you have probably had enough partners and practice to know what turns you on and what falls flat, and a little bit about your own talents too. It’s not even all about what tricks you’re pulling out your bag in the bedroom. By now you can probably flirt without looking like a lip-glossed, giggly adolescent and you can give Ciara a run for her money when it comes to seducing someone. Get it, girl; the term grown and Hot now accurately applies.