Where Is The Logic In THAT? 6 Examples of Flawed Relationship Thinking
If I text him, he won’t like me
Don’t lie: you’ve thought this. You don’t know that you’ve thought this, but why else would you hesitate for one second before texting a guy—whether it’s after the first date or the first year of dating? You worry you’ll come off as clingy, aggressive or that he’ll get scared away. But think about that: one little text is going to say all that? Nuh uh. If a man gets scared off after one text, that text was just the straw that broke the camel’s back. If you’re nervous that one text will do all that, you subconsciously know that you were already acting clingy or aggressive for quite some time leading up. Now, if you haven’t been acting those ways, then send the damn text! If the guy likes you, he’ll welcome it!