So You Not Into Your Partner’s Kinky-Ish; Now What?
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Julia Austin
Avoid Shaming The Kink
When you are telling your partner that you aren’t into their kink, don’t make them feel ashamed. Imagine if someone made a face like they just smelled a nasty fart when you told them what you liked in bed. It would practically ruin sex for you. You care about your partner and don’t want to make them feel bad – so remember that. In fact, thank them for being vulnerable enough to share their kink with you.
It can be useful to keep the focus on why the kink doesn’t work for you and what about it makes you uncomfortable. Use a lot of “I feel” statements so the conversation remains objective instead of judgmental.
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