Have You Heard Of The Fairytale Industrial Complex?
“I can fix him”
“There are a lot of people who, not only are they comfortable dating people who are emotionally unavailable, but they actually think that that’s just how it is. They think ‘It’s my job to get you to love me enough so you now are available.’” The trouble with that mindset, is any “personal work” done by the woman, is framed around attracting a certain man, and not about the growth that’s best for her, independent of a relationship.