What Is Co-Parenting Coaching And How Can It Help You?
Use clear and affirming language when it comes to discipline
When handling disciplinary issues with your child, Craig says one of the most important things is “Affirming the child.” Growing up, when Craig misbehaved, her mother would tell her she was on punishment, and there was a lot of anxiety surrounding that word because it was vague, and it felt like a condemnation.
“Change the words. Instead of saying ‘You’re on punishment’ say ‘You’re grounded.’ That has an entirely different psychological meaning than telling a child they’re on punishment.”