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Kelly Rowland and her husband/manager, Tim Weatherspoon, are celebrating six years of marriage on May 9. With her busy career and the couple running after 5-year-old son Titan all the time, how do they keep the fire going? Well, if you heard her new single “Coffee,” you already know Kelly has her ways.

In the new issue of PEOPLE, the 39-year-old singer wasn’t shy about sharing that she and Tim have a spicy romantic life. She has no problem dressing up to ensure their sex life remains “fun,” and will stay that way.

“As far as sex is concerned, I’m like, ‘Well, if I have to play dress up and do role-play, honey, if I need to be Alicia tonight and give you a surprise in the middle of the night or something then it needs to happen. We spice things up a bit and keep it fun,” she said. “When we met each other, we had fun. Two years from now, we’ll have fun. I think if you hold that close to you, it can always show itself in your relationship.”

On top of a colorful sex life, Kelly said that doing couples therapy weekly and working on their communication keeps the marriage as a whole functioning well. It also helps that both parties are committed to doing any and everything they can to make things work, therefore bucking divorce rumors.

“Before I was married, I was like, ‘Well, if it doesn’t work, you just get a divorce,” she said. “[But now,] that’s not an option for me. That’s not an option for me because I know I have a good man. I know I have someone that loves me unconditionally and we’re gonna sort this thing out, we’re gonna figure it out. Above anything, we’ve got faith and we’ve got each other. Marriage means a lot to me. It’s something that I hold very sacred.”

Can’t get enough of these two? Hit the flip to check out photos of the couple looking quite in love over their four years of marriage.

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The two were happily hugged up while watching the U.S. Open back in 2015.

NEW YORK, NY – SEPTEMBER 02: Kelly Rowland and Tim Witherspoon attend day 3 of the 2015 US Open at USTA Billie Jean King National Tennis Center on September 2, 2015 in New York City. (Photo by Uri Schanker/GC Images)

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The pair showed some light PDA while chatting with friends at the Oscar Week Celebration held by Cadillac in 2016.

LOS ANGELES, CA – FEBRUARY 25: (L-R) Tim Witherspoon, singer Kelly Rowland and guests attend the Cadillac Oscar Week Celebration at Chateau Marmont on February 25, 2016 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by John Shearer/Getty Images for Cadillac)

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The pair proved they can wear art well while supporting Tina Knowles’ annual Wearable Art Gala back in 2017.

LOS ANGELES, CA – APRIL 29: Kelly Rowland (R) and Tim Witherspoon arrive for the Wearable Art Gala at California African American Museum on April 29, 2017 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Gabriel Olsen/FilmMagic)

 

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Kelly sent a smile her then-suitor’s way while they checked out the Sony Open Tennis tournament in Florida back in 2014.

KEY BISCAYNE, FL – MARCH 29: Kelly Rowland and Tim Witherspoon are seen at Sony Open Tennis at Crandon Park Tennis Center on March 29, 2014 in Key Biscayne, Florida. (Photo by Uri Schanker/GC Images)

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Serving loving couple in disco garb, Kelly and Tim wore color-coordinated ensembles to Beyoncé’s birthday part back in 2016. The two looked cute as they held hands on their way out of the soiree.

Kelly Rowland and Tim Witherspoon leave an after party for former band member, Beyonce’s, birthday in NYC

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Clearly watching tennis is one of the couple’s favorite activities. Pre-wedding and baby, they enjoyed themselves at the Sony Open Tennis tournament in March 2014.

KEY BISCAYNE, FL – MARCH 20: Tim Witherspoon and Kelly Rowland are seen at Sony Open Tennis at Crandon Park Tennis Center on March 20, 2014 in Key Biscayne, Florida. (Photo by Uri Schanker/GC Images)

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Family time! The couple played with son Titan and their god daughter on trampolines at Skyzone in Sydney, Australia in 2017.

JUNE 2, 2017: SYDNEY, NSW – (EUROPE AND AUSTRALASIA OUT) Singer Kelly Rowland with her son Titan Jewell Witherspoon, Tim Witherspoon and god daughter Lola enjoy the trampolines at Skyzone in Aleaxandria, Sydney, New South Wales. (Photo by Dave Swift/Newspix/Getty Images)

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Always dressed to the nines, Kelly and Tim looked their best while at the 2017 Baby2Baby Gala.

LOS ANGELES, CA – NOVEMBER 11: (L-R) Kelly Rowland and Tim Witherspoon attends The 2017 Baby2Baby Gala presented by Paul Mitchell on November 11, 2017 in Los Angeles, California. (Photo by Matt Winkelmeyer/Getty Images for Baby2Baby)

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Dressed in all Black like the omen, as Lil Kim would say, Tim and Kelly enjoyed another outing at the Baby2Baby Gala a year later in 2018.

CULVER CITY, CA – NOVEMBER 10: Tim Witherspoon (L) and Kelly Rowland pose at the 2018 Baby2Baby Gala Presented by Paul Mitchell at 3LABS on November 10, 2018 in Culver City, California. (Photo by Charley Gallay/Getty Images for Baby2Baby)

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The parents were joined by their growing son, Titan, who will be six this year, at the Baby2Baby holiday party back in December.

BEVERLY HILLS, CALIFORNIA – DECEMBER 15: (L-R) Tim Weatherspoon, Titan Jewell Weatherspoon and Kelly Rowland attend The Baby2Baby Holiday Party Presented By FRAME And Uber at Montage Beverly Hills on December 15, 2019 in Beverly Hills, California. (Photo by Stefanie Keenan/Getty Images for Baby2Baby)