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There are some things women don’t even totally understand about themselves, and that men can only learn through trial and error (sorry!) But after being dumped a few times, or at least slapped on the wrist, all men eventually learn these things about women.
After enough men and enough mishaps, you realize that there are some things men just didn’t get the memo on when it comes to the woman’s body. Like these:
Communication in the bedroom can either make everything so much better, or so much worse. Every single word spoken, gasped or groaned during sex carries the weight of a thousand words. She doesn’t want to hurt you feelings. She doesn’t want to ruin the mood. She doesn’t want to make you insecure. But for god sake, she DOES want that orgasm! So, sometimes she has to say something! She just might say it so delicately, that you don’t get the point. But here’s what she really means when she does or says this:
In the beginning of a relationship, you do nice things for your partner to impress her, rather than to make her feel good—that’s just a bonus. You want to show her what the package includes, should she decide to buy it. And so, unfortunately, once you’ve wooed her and won her, it’s easy to get too comfortable and stop making the large and loving gestures you once made. You think, “She knows that I adore her/find her attractive/am happy with her. So I don’t have to show it.” And, while she probably does know, once the effort goes out the window, so can the excitement of a relationship. And once that goes, your girlfriend/wife can start to wonder, “Is there something else out there? Is this what I want my life to be like?” A few simple gestures could keep those thoughts at bay.
Are you a freak? Kinky? Twisted in the brain? Honestly, you’re probably not. The odd thing about these words is that they’re usually applied to fantasies and desires that nearly every woman has. The real “freak”—the odd man out—is the woman who thinks of nothing but monogamy and missionary. We’re animals. Society conditioned us to be conservative. But our natural tastes are something else entirely…
Many women fantasize about grabbing that nervous bus boy at a restaurant, or steamy bartender at a dive bar, by the tie and dragging them to a dingy motel for a wild night of sex. Many women say they feel the only way they can completely let loose is with a total stranger who they will never see again.
You’re watching TV with your man. You’ve had a laid back night with not a lot of talking. And then suddenly, out of nowhere he says, “Let’s have sex.” And even though you love him, and even though he usually turns you on just by laying one finger on you, this doesn’t do it for you. In fact, it’s kind of killed the mood for the whole evening. Here’s why: