It Really Is You & Not Him: 10 Reasons You Can’t Find a Good Man

1. You want to argue about everything all of the time.

Some women are addicted to drama.  They don’t know how to function in situations where no one is yelling or throwing someone’s clothes out the window.  I’ve said this before, but there’s a lot of healthy relationship stuff between getting freaky and fighting.  Save the drama for the Melanie Fiona videos.  As I get older one of the most surprising things I’ve learned is that the best relationship I’ve ever had has been the most boring.  By boring I mean I’m not checking his phone for text messages because there’s nothing to check for.  He doesn’t do Facebook and our biggest arguments are over breakfast cereal.  Our best moments are spent watching Netflix and talking smack about the drama in our friends’ relationships.

Arguing about the girl winking at him in the drive through or the fact that he didn’t answer his phone for two hours is not only immature and insecure, it’s exhausting.  No one wants to deal with someone who is allergic to being happy.