Save It! The Worst Relationship Advice From Black Rom Coms

If he sees you off to the airport, when you’re going to see your ex–then he’s serious about the relationship

After reading this piece of advice, I don’t even have to tell you it’s crazy as all hell. And as much as I love to love Love Jones, I’m sorry to say this little tidbit came from this classic film. Remember when Nina (Nia Long) was going to go visit her ex fiancé, even though she had just started sleeping with Darius (Larenz Tate)? Well, in true delusional best friend fashion, Josie (Lisa Nicole Carson) told her, the way to tell if Darius was serious about their relationship or not was to see if he freaked out or not when she went to visit her ex. How ridiculous! I don’t know about you and your crew; but if a man I was dating told me he was going to go see if he could patch things up with his ex girl, the absolute last thing I would do was to make a scene. You’re going to do what you want to do, there’s no reason I should flip out over your foolishness.