How To Spot A Ball Buster

December 20th, 2011 - By Julia Austin

 

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When she is smiling, all dolled up and holding a drink, any woman looks friendly. But then, you walk up to her, you rehearse your practiced line and…uh oh…you’ve got a Ball Buster on your hands. And you’ll be lucky to walk away with those balls. Here’s how you can spot one—or how you know if you are one:

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  • Paul

    The men who complain the most about Ball Busting women are the ones with the least to lose. 

  • Amadeus

    It is beter to have thy balls busted than not to flirted at all. 

    Shake-my-spear

  • Amadeus

    It is beter to have thy balls busted than not to flirted at all. 

    Shake-my-spear

  • Ken

    Great article, I never broke it down like that. I just think a lot of people (both men and woman) don’t know how to be PLEASANT anymore. You can tell jokes, have a good time, tip a few drinks back, and/or tell an off-color joke and still be pleasant. Maybe it’s a particular image that people are so fixated on instead of just being themselves, but that’s exactly what we’re talking about here- people know they’re not cool enough, so they put on these airs to make themselves feel better.      

  • http://www.facebook.com/alexis.klatt Alexis Klatt

    Obviously A MAN WROTE THIS ARTICLE!

    Women who have high self-esteem act like these women mentioned here.  Women with high self-esteem are disliked & put down by men who are misogynists. (they secretly hate women & likely don’t know it).

    A powerful woman, many times has been an abused woman, but come out of that state with counselling & therapy.  Like in the Song ‘I Am Woman’.”I’ve been down there on the floor, and no ones ever going to put me down again”. “Yes I am wise, but its wisdom born of pain”, and on the song goes.

    Again, the only men who call these, ‘now-educated’ women B Buster, are men who are unable to use “power & control” on them.

    No woman in her right mind would want a guy, that has a problem with her self-confidence, anyway.

  • Lsrms3977

    Ball buster women need to get punched in the face!

  • Lady Belle

    It’s important to realize that he means if you take any of these characteristics to far… Just because you do some things some times doesn’t make you a ball buster. But for ladies (and I know the kind he or/she is talking about) if you make these your signature moves then you probably are a ball buster.. So check yourself.

  • MatureVegasWoman

    Dang, Big Mike, it never dawned on me that a woman would have written this.  It sounds more like a man who cannot keep up with the women he wants to attract.  In my single days, I occasionaly purchased tickets or took my date to some special thing–how about for his birthday or to introduce him to some entertainer I liked with whom he was unfamiliar?  Nothing wrong with that.  I remember my date-at-the-time (one of whom is now my husband) were flattered at the gesture.  What is ball busting about that? 

  • MzLadeeMam

    This whole article is bull… These things don’t make you a ball buster, just cautious…. Making a man walk away with his tail between his legs is ball busting…that is something that I am good at. This article should have been titled, how to loose a man in 10 days, lol

  • Hhalto

    I’ll be a ball buster.  Keeps the wrong men away from me.