Why Did He Change? Signs You Missed that Told You He Couldn’t Commit

He’s a Seduction Master and an Escape Artist

After a few days, weeks or months of him wooing you, you experience the most tender and attentive love from this man. He blew your mind 69 times, so well that you thought you’d seen Jesus, and as a result, your nose is wide open. Now he’s making excuses about not being able to stay over, being busy at work, blah, blah, blah. As he pulls away, you rack your brain and wonder what happened, and if it was something you did. All of a sudden you are thirstier than usual to talk to him, but unlike at the beginning when he picked up your every call on the first ring, this time, your call goes to voicemail.

“The woman often responds with disbelief. She thinks it’s impossible that he can really be this way with her. After all, this is the same man who was so intimate with her, so close, so together. My best advice to such a woman: Believe it! Don’t hang around to ask questions. Don’t assume he is having a nervous breakdown. Don’t assume that there has been some sort of misunderstanding and that once he understands, everything will be all right again. And most importantly, don’t think you did something wrong,” says Carter.

Christelyn D. Karazin is the co-author of Swirling: How to Date, Mate and Relate Mixing Race Culture and Creed (to be released April 2012), and runs a blog, www.beyondblackwhite.com, dedicated to women of color who are interested and or involved in interracial and intercultural relationships. She is also the founder and organizer of “No Wedding, No Womb,” an initiative to find solutions to the 72 percent out-of-wedlock rate in the black community.

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