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Ideally, you shouldn’t really have to have the “what are we conversation?” Usually, when you’ve seen each other for a while, things have been going great, you’ve met one another’s friends and already keep a tooth brush at each other’s homes, you know what you are. That being said, plenty of unfortunate women have been in those exact scenarios only to find out the guy they’d been seeing also had his toothbrush at another woman’s home. So, yeah, sometimes you do need to have the talk. Plus, making it “official” is kind of important since then you can call your boyfriend your boyfriend without worrying he’ll freak out all because you hadn’t had “the talk.” But making it official shouldn’t change much. If you and boo just made it official, here’s how not to blow it.

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