He Is Emotionally Unavailable
Sometimes we think a man with a blank personality is mysterious. Often we are up for the chase and determined to crack their shell. If he calls sporadically or is slow with the communication – we look at that as some sign of busyness. In our minds – maybe he’s working late or maybe he is tired. It’s easy for us to spend a lot of time thinking of ways to reel him in. Stop right there. Emotionally unavailable men are not available for the relationship. Any type of crowding puts them at a distance. The distance he is giving you is his type of normal – not yours.