When it comes to how dependent a couple can be on each other, there is a huge range of what’s considered “normal.” Some couples have their Google calendars synced up and get a notification to their smart phone the second one person makes an edit. Some couples see each other once a week and survive on phone calls throughout the week. But one thing that people often don’t understand is when you’re a really independent girlfriend and don’t need all of that contact. People assume your relationship isn’t going well, or you’re just no that in love. But that’s just not the case. Here are some things people don’t understand when you’re an independent girlfriend.
When you haven’t spoken all day
If you’re chatting with your mom at the end of the day, and she asks, “How’s your boyfriend doing?” and you say, “I don’t know—we haven’t spoken today” she will ask if you’re in a fight.