Valentine’s Day may have come and gone but that doesn’t mean the hot sex has to go with it. While it’s not the only ingredient to a lasting relationship, great sex can take the place of frivolous arguments. Men are happy when they have everything they need and want at home, including a bad girl. Men are nasty and, when it comes to sex, they want it no-hole-barred trampy. No pun intended.
Inhibitions, who needs them when it’s you and your man? Take control and do him. Make it a personal challenge to get the biggest rise out of him. It’s the little things that count. You will be amazed by how satisfying it is for you, too.
Try these tips for making missionary-style magnificent and, hopefully, get him to screech:
Kegelator
Warning: If you plan to try this, do not eat a large meal within one hour of the act and be sure to use the bathroom beforehand. Failure to take the proper precaution could result in a very, very embarrassing moment.
Kegeling, or squeezing your vagina muscles, isn’t just for child labor. They feel amazing to men during sex. It’s like a combination of intercourse and fellatio. The grip and release is like a massage with all of the “texture” they like. To do it, push from your butt hole. When you push, you squeeze and relax when you let go. Think butt, not vagina and you will do the job.
Minty Cool
Bring a little almond (or mocha) joy into his life with minty-cool breath. The momentary sensations of cold will send tingles up his spine during sessions of special attention. No scientific study has proven this urban sex legend to be true, but those who’ve experienced it will tell you it works. No man is going to fight against being your guinea pig. Use peppermint Altoids. They are strong and contain peppermint oil which is said to be an aphrodisiac.
Good Vibrations
A little humming never hurt anyone, especially when it comes to oral sex. There is a reason some refer to it as a hummer. A few long hums will send good vibrations throughout his body and make him more sensitive to touch. Err on the side of not humming a familiar tune. That could end up being more weird than stimulating.
Ice, Ice Baby
A cold bite might just turn up the heat for you and your honey.Crunching on crushed ice before foreplay will give your mouth the frost it needs to send chills in every direction. Blow down his chest, take in a little more ice and take a deep breath on his other head. This type of teasing is sure to take him the edge, so be ready to get it started.
Play Ball(s)
Teabag yourself by taking a mouthful of your man. Scrotums need love, too. Your man will love when you give some special attention to the other guys down there. A mouth massage is the best way to go about stimulating him, nice and slow. It is also a great way to give you a break from blowing and still please him.
Between a Ball and Butt Space
You know that spot right under his man-dangles so close to his bum hole they are pretty much the same thing? Lick it. Yep, put your mouth on it. It adds sensation to regular old fellatio. Plus, it’s a little unorthodox which makes it hot. He will be turned on by both the dirty act and the great feeling.
Inner Make-out
The inner thigh, for men and women, is full of sensation. Tickle the area with your tongue, finger tips or a feather. It is an erogenous zone that can make him feels like he has popped before he pokes. For best results, get into a make-out session with the most inner part. His legs are guaranteed to quiver and you may even see toes curl.
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