1 of 15

Keyshia Cole’s marriage troubles have been one of the most public celebrity relationship meltdowns in recent memory (although T.I. and Tiny may soon give her and Boobie a run for their money). Keyshia may have over-shared, but letting fans in on her struggle made a lot of people realize that they can relate. If you’ve ever watched your relationship go down the tubes, you know the signs that your relationship might be in trouble. And if you haven’t here they are:

Image Source: Instagram.com

You Start Listening to All the Salty Jams

And if you were Keyshia Cole, you’d probably write the lyrics to a few too.

Image Source: Instagram.com

You Start Talking About Sex…A Lot

It’s a sign that he’s no longer handling his business at home. As soon as Keyshia stopped Instagramming about her broken heart, she started Instagramming a bunch of sexually suggestive photos. She even went on Bethenney Frankel to talk about “exploring a sexier side of herself”.

Image Source: Twitter.com

You Charge a Stranger

Have you ever gone after the other woman? That’s just what Keyshia did when she heard that Daniel was cheating again, this time with a stripper in another state named H-Town Ciara.

Image Source: Twitter.com

You Charge The Wrong Stranger

When you know your man is out there doing dirt, all the women around him start to look suspect. But after the fallout from Keyshia’s shots, it looks like Daniel may have been cheating with that stripper. Both H-Town Ciara and Daniel Gibson deny that the affair ever happened.

Image Source: Instagram

You Start Posting Stuff Like This

We’ve all been there. But when you find yourself posting inspirational quotes for spiritual support it may be time to let that soul baggage go.

Image Source: WENN.com

You Walk Around With An Attitude

A lot of us have walked around with the screw face on because we were having trouble at home. So when we found out Keyshia was having marriage problems, we sort of understood why she’d been social-media dragging everyone from family to fans to other artists. Sometimes the struggle is deep.

Image Source: Instagram.com

You’re Always Assuring People that Things are OK

When Keyshia tried to quiet the rumors by posting this picture of she and her husband “getting along” it made us that much more suspect that something was up.

Image Source: Instagram.com

The Rumors Start Piling Up

When you’re married, you want to believe that everything is OK. But when teams of women start storming your Twitter page it may be time to acknowledge the gossip and investigate the situation.

Image Source: Instagram.com

He’s Making It Rain And You’re In Debt

If he’s no longer investing in the relationship, it’s a good sign that it’s really over. Just around the time that the tabloids got wind of the fact that Keyshia Cole owed around $100,000 in back taxes, we heard stories of Mr. Gibson spending thousands across the country.

Image Source: Instagram.com

People Assume You’re Over

When people are always asking “ya’ll still together?” it’s a sign of a major problem. Rumors that Keyshia is already divorced may not be true but a real legal separation can’t be far away.

Image Source: Instagram.com

When He Tries To Make You Think You’re Crazy

You hear about his cheating from almost everyone you meet, you’ve seen pictures of him making it rain and he posts this on his Instagram page.

Image Source: Twitter.com

Anyone Who Defends Him Can Kick Rocks

#blocked

Image Source: Instagram.com

People Try to Hook You Up With Other Folks

…while you’re still married. Since her marriage publicly fell apart, people have seen Keyshia out with a mystery man named Mr. Rugs and everyone swears they’re together. It may not be true but it won’t be long until some real match making goes on.

Image Source: Instagram.com

You Start Planning Life Without Him

In the midst of cheating and split up rumors, Keyshia released this Tweet. When you realize you don’t need him to make you happy, it’s time to let him go.

Image Source: Instagram.com

You Look Happier Without Him

Now that most of the drama is on it’s way behind her, Keyshia looks happier, more productive and she’s even stopped dragging (most) folks on Twitter. Sometimes you really are better off alone.