Ask A Very Smart Brotha: Is It Ok To Date Your Baby’s Father’s Cousin
A’keydra: I’m a college student approaching my senior year and I haven’t found that special someone yet. Nor have I yet encountered a man who is on my level. I keep getting interest from those who are so called “gangsta’s” but I want more. I’m saving myself so I can get the best but now I’m thinking are my standards too high? I’m starting to feel a little lonely because I hold men to such high standards but it’s hard because there is another woman readily to get what’s mine if I do bend the rules. But I firmly believe men do need these standards so respect will be built. What should I do in regards of being a single, black, educated woman wondering when someone will knock her off her feet then?
DY: Graduate, look for a job, find a job, and continue to do you and keep those standards.
