The Difference Between Being Sweet Versus Smothering
Smothering: Showing up to help with…anything at all
Showing up unannounced at a random time at your guy’s parent’s place, seeing if they needed anything, or to just “pay a visit” will make your guy hear slasher music. Maybe after you’re married you can do that. But most men don’t want you at a drop-in-for-a-visit comfort level with their parents unless they’re certain you’re the one.