How to Deal With Your Man’s Pesky Ex
1) Be Reasonable: Yes, it would be ideal if all extraneous, non-essential women (meaning: moms, aunts, siblings, first cousins, lesbians and trustworthy homegirls only) stopped contacting your man the moment you established that you wanted him to be your man, but the world doesn’t revolve around you. But you can’t get upset or concerned every time a woman reaches out to your dude. He had a life before you and there isn’t a “Malik’s got a woman now” automatic text that goes out to all his ex flames. Relax! His last girlfriend might still have a thang for him, but that doesn’t necessarily mean that he has any designs on getting that old thing back.