Make It Hot! Fun Ways To Spice Up Your Sex Life
12. Talk Dirty
If you’re not much of a dirty talker in bed, this may be a bit uncomfortable for you, but men love it when you express to him verbally that he’s pleasing you. If you’re unsure of what to say or you just find yourself lacking the words to turn him on, keep it simple and just say things like “yes,” “right there,” “that feels so gooood,” etc. If even that makes you feel strange, simply make some noise. Moan, grunt, whisper sweet nothings – just whatever you do, don’t just lie there quiet. He may think you’re not as into it as he is, that he’s not pleasing you…or that you’re dead. Nobody desires a dead fish.