7. She Does Anything and Everything For Him
She’s his personal chef, his personal assistant, his maid, his mama and his best friend –and she is totally at his disposal. She makes him soup when he’s sick, picks up his dry cleaning, walks his dog and does everything for him that a “girlfriend” would do…even though he has a girlfriend already. She claims to do all of this because she’s his “friend” – but what she’s really doing is trying to show you up. She doesn’t have respect for boundaries and it’s up to your man to shut it down if he knows what’s good for him. The only person who should be taking care of him is you (or him because he is a grown man) so don’t let this other woman pretend to be a better partner for him than you are. If she’s truly his friend, she’ll know when to fall back and let his girlfriend be there for him.