The female orgasm: sometimes elusive, often misunderstood. Here are but a few of the many things you may need to know about women and their climax habits…you may want to email this to some of the men in your life…trust me!
Types of Orgasms
1) There are believed to be three types of female orgasms: vaginal, clitoral and “G-spot.” The second is the easiest one to achieve; by stimulating the clitoris with a finger, tongue, vibrator, penis, household object, etc., a woman can experience a great orgasm that resonates all through her body. You might even have a little accidental clitoral climax on a bumpy bus ride or via friction created by a tight pair of slacks. The vaginal orgasm, however, is a bit more elusive and (like the “G-spot” orgasm) requires penetration of some sport. There is some debate as to whether it even is exists, or if it what we believe to be a vaginal climax is simply a clitoral orgasm that is achieved by stimulating the Clitoris from a different place. The “G-spot” is alleged to be a erogenous zone at the front wall of the vagina; however, there is even more debate over its existence. Most anatomy textbooks make no mention of it at all, but women’s magazines have been pushing for years the idea that it’s a magical pleasure center.
Quality Vs. Quantity
2) Many women don’t have orgasms during intercourse. This can be daunting to men and also leads a lot of ladies to faking a climax in order to preserve their lover’s ego. However, it should be noted that plenty of women enjoy sex even if they don’t have an orgasm. Beyond that, a man (or woman) shouldn’t always assume that it is a lack of skill on their part that is preventing their partner from climaxing. Some women just have an incredibly hard time coming. This does not excuse their partners from attempting to please them, but it should be noted that even the most valiant efforts don’t always result in orgasm.In fact, a recent study by the University of Kansas found 90% of the female respondents blaming their inability to orgasm at times on psychological factors (stress, environment, e.t.c.), as opposed to bad partners. A study by Planned Parenthood found some 80% of women having trouble climaxing through penetration.
The Time Factor
3) It simply takes women longer to arrive at the point of climax. Most women require at least 20 minutes of stimulation to orgasm. Again, it isn’t a matter of having a bad lover versus a good one, so much as it’s simply how our bodies work. Make sure that your chosen party is patient enough to put in the effort if you do find that orgasm is an important end goal for your sexual liaisons.
