When Are You Going To Lose That Baby Weight? & Other Things You Shouldn’t Say To Your Mommy Friends

You’re not that fun anymore!

Before your friend had her bundle of joy, she was a bundle of joy.  At any given moment she was up for a trip to a club, party or random  road trip.  But once she had her child you hardly see her.  When you do talk to her she’s distracted by her baby’s actions, or constantly bringing up the little one.

You wanna know why?  That baby has now became her main focus.  It’s hard having something incubate in you for a number of months and not have an extreme attachment to it (unless it’s a parasite, but you know what I’m getting at).  That little baby trumps everything now; the midnight movie showings, the clubbing, the wine tastings; because the mother might feel like she needs to be on alert if her baby ever needs anything.  Now, there are women who still do the things while their babies are young, but don’t insult your friend who is trying to be a good mother for not doing these things anymore or not doing them as often as you’d like.