Phone Foreplay — 4 Spicy Sexting Tips To Keep Them Wanting More - Page 3
3. Learn their Lust Language.
Some people melt when you call them “baby,” while others get off on being called your “dirty little secret.” And when it comes to words for body parts? Some words may not turn everyone on the same way.
Before you get deep into sext mode, check in, especially with someone new. What terms do they love? What makes them feel sexy, desired, powerful, or submissive? What are their hard no’s?
“It’s best to lay down a blanket negotiation for any kind of sexting in advance,” explained Stella Harris, a sex coach, during a 2024 interview with MindBodyGreen. “What language does each person like and dislike? What topics are off-limits?”
This will not only help you sext confidently, but it also creates a safe and respectful environment for your partner to open up, too.
