The ‘Stranger Effect’ Might Be Proof You’re A Total Smoke Show

Struggling with self-confidence when it comes to your appearance? Your concerns may be unwarranted, as there are subtle signs you could be overlooking that suggest you’re more attractive than you think, according to one psychology student on TikTok.

In a post shared on March 8, UCLA psychology student Yadi shared clues that indicate physical attractiveness based on how others perceive you. One major sign that indicates you’re a total smoke show is something she called the “stranger effect,” where people hold doors for you, make eye contact, smile, or even wave when they see you. It can happen effortlessly, without you having to do anything. If heads turn or people stare when you enter a room, it’s a strong indication of your attractiveness.

The stranger effect phenomenon, where people are generally friendlier to you because of your looks, is often referred to as the “halo effect” or “pretty privilege.” Research supports this idea. A 2009 study found that attractive people are often seen as more trustworthy, while a 2006 study by the American Economic Review found that attractive individuals are more likely to be hired, promoted, and receive higher salaries. Their appearance-based confidence often leads them to pursue—and achieve—the opportunities they set their sights on.

Here’s another strong sign you’re attractive. Yadi pointed out that younger and older women may stare at you with prolonged eye contact, which she interprets as admiration, although it can sometimes stem from envy or jealousy, especially if people gossip about you for no apparent reason, which Yadi identified as her third indicator of attractiveness.

Female teens and adults struggle with body confidence.

It seems spot on, as more and more adults and teenage women are struggling with body confidence. A recent study, conducted between April 26-27, 2021, on a nationally representative sample of 1,302 people in the U.S. ages 16 and older, revealed key insights into how the American public felt about their body image. About 51% of Americans reported feeling pressured to have a certain body type. Notably, women (60%) were 18 percentage points more likely than men (42%) to feel completely or somewhat pressured to achieve a particular body type.

This brings us to the fourth sign. Yadi explained that attractive people often don’t receive compliments because their beauty is already recognized by others. However, just because you don’t get compliments doesn’t mean you’re unattractive. She noted in the TikTok video that men are less likely to approach attractive women in public, assuming they are either already taken or will be rejected, the fifth and final key indicator that you’re super good looking. So, if you find yourself rarely approached, it could simply be because some men feel you’re “too good” for them.

What are your thoughts on these signs? Do you think they hold any truth?

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