How Life Changes When You Do What You Say You’ll Do
Your family treats you like an adult
Do you feel like your family has always treated you like a baby, even long after you became an adult? Maybe you discover major events happening in the family like money issues or illness, but you were always the last one to find out. It could be because they didn’t think they could rely on you to be helpful – they didn’t think you could “handle it.” It may have been an insulting feeling, but if you’d always displayed behaviors proving that you couldn’t take on extra tasks or help the family, you couldn’t really contest the insult. If you start doing what you say you’ll do, the family might invite you into the trust more.