Signs You Let Other People’s Problems Affect You Too Much
You’ve lent out a lot of money
You’ve lent a tremendous amount of money to friends and family. Maybe you’ve gotten it back. Maybe you haven’t gotten some of it back, and you “forgave” the loan. You have to understand that, those with boundaries rarely lend out money to friends and family—it may happen just a handful of times in their life for true emergencies, but that’s it.