Why You Shouldn’t Compete With Your Partner
You will always choose the work event
If a career opportunity comes up that would interrupt a personal obligation, like going to your partner’s friend’s wedding, or going on a weekend getaway with your partner, you will choose the career event. You have already established an every man for himself mentality, and encourage the idea that you are both free to choose your career over each other. In fact, you fear the other one would do the same, so it’s what you do to get ahead of him.