Relationships Are Work: But How Much Is Too Much?
You distract yourselves with excitement
In order to be happy, you must always do grand, thrilling, and exciting things. You’re always traveling. You’re always going to big events. You’re often doing these things to “reset” after a fight, but you have to reset so often that you’re always jetting off to some weekend getaway. You’re actually just trying to get away from the reality that your relationship is junk.