Are You An Abusive Girlfriend?
You Run Hot And Cold With Your Feelings
Relationships are already hard, but imagine how difficult it is to be in a relationship with someone who always changes how they feel about you. Dealing with this emotional uncertainty is one of the worse forms of emotional abuse.
It is also a means of controlling the relationship to your benefit. You’re extremely cold to your partner, then when you’ve pushed them away at your preferred distance, you go out of your way to win back their affection. This yo-yoing of emotions is extremely unhealthy.