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Ugh, Why Am I Only Getting Approached By Married Men?
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Q: I am 32-years-old and I’ve just been dating here and there. I truly do want to be in a “real relationship”, however I don’t understand why I keep attracting guys who are not even divorced yet. They are “separated,” but to me, that means still married. This one guy, who is married, is trying so hard to talk to me. I told him so many times that I just want to be friends because he is still married. His daughter is my student, and when I see him he will call four times after that and ask to see me again. I don’t know what to do. I don’t want to be with him because he is married. I want to do what is right for me. How can I tell him we’re “just friends,” and how can I attract the right person for me? — Anonymous
See what celebrity clinical psychologist Dr. Sherry Blake has to say about this woman on Essence.com.
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You Catch Your Husband Watching Adult Videos. What Do You Do?
You get home early from work one day and notice your husband’s car in the driveway. Sweet, you’ll get to spend some extra time together! You walk in the house and decide to keep quiet and surprise him. You gently open the door to your study when you catch your husband in a very compromising position.
He’s in front of the computer, pants around his ankles, watching Adult Videos. (And you happen to notice that the women look nothing like you.)
Do you understand that your man needs a little variety or does this make you feel unwanted and insecure?
Find out what a relationship expert has to say about this question at Your Tango.com
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Debbie Allen Says Fantasia Needs to Get Rid of the Leeches Around Her
Debbie Allen was on the Wendy Williams show recently, mostly talking about her relationship with Mariah Carey, who she’s like a second mother to. But she also shared a few gems of wisdom for Fantasia after Wendy asked what the singer needs to do to repair her reputation:
“I wish she would just step away from all the people around her, step into her own footsteps, away from everybody around her and get her own voice… She’s got a gift from God. God will help tell her where to go. She’s got too many leeches around her and it makes her second guess herself.”
Debbie Allen goes on to talk about Fantasia’s low point and says she needs to focus attention on her young daughter. It’s been a tough year for Fanny after rumors spread of a relationship with a married man, Antwuan Cook; an attempted suicide; and announcing a second pregnancy. Do you think Fantasia can revive her career if she listens to this advice?
Brande Victorian is a blogger and culture writer in New York City. Follower her on Twitter at @be_vic.
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I Made Out With A Married Man…And Then I Told His Wife
Let’s say you met a man spontaneously at a bar. He is charming, handsome and all together captivating. You spend the next several hours together, talking and getting to know each other’s bodies a little bit better. [But no sex.) You end the night on a high, only to find out a few days later that homeboy is married.
Womp!
How do you handle the situation? Well this very thing really happened to a writer for Your Tango.com. You can read her full story and see how she handled it here.
A Guide to Befriending Married Men (or Not)
With recent developments in the news about famous married men gone absolutely bonkers in the marriage department (the ring leaders being The-Dream, Tiger Woods, Jesse James), you would think it would be easy to make decisions when you meet a married man. Fine as the married man might be, you would think that after seeing his wedding band, you would run several miles away from him. But, what if you meet a married man who seems just oh-so-nice? Is there a protocol you can follow? Indeed, there is. Check out this exclusive decision diagram from Madame Noire, for steps you should take upon meeting a married man.
