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Remember the days when you used to watch Seinfeld and think that Kramer was hilarious? That was until he went on a rant in a nightclub against some black hecklers and screamed that they were nothing but “ni**ers.” I haven’t been able to look at him the same ever since. And similar side eyes are given to these talented Hollywood folks, whose antics and personal lives have become difficult to separate from their work.
This probably explains why he didn’t bother to show up to the Golden Globes on Sunday to accept his Cecil B. DeMille Award. While folks were applauding Woody Allen for his contributions to film, his ex-wife and son, Mia Farrow and Ronan Farrow were speaking openly about him being a child molester. And seeing that he is currently married to Farrow’s adopted daughter from a previous relationship, he’s probably going to have a hard time ever living that down. This man’s life has been the definition of scandal.
Lolo Jones is known as much for the disrespectful things she says as she’s known for her pursuits of a medal in hurdles at the Olympics (2008 and 2012), maybe more. She received a great deal of backlash for her comments about Rachel Jeantel during the George Zimmerman trial (Rachel Jeantel looked so irritated during the cross-examination that I burned it on DVD and I’m going to sell it as Madea goes to court). And Jones, who has successfully tried her hand at bobsledding and is currently battling with her team for a spot in the Winter Olympics, caught major heat from Twitter last night for putting her foot in her mouth again. After a curly-headed fan dressed up for her as Halloween saying “Had to be my girl @lolojones for Halloween. My idol. I just need a hurdle.,” Jones caught wind of the picture and for some reason, thought it would be cute or maybe even funny to tell the fan that if she really wanted to look like Jones, she needed a perm:
Clearly this was a very unnecessary thing to say to someone who is trying to pay homage to you. As my coworker would say, “a simple thank you would have sufficed,” and indeed it would have. Of course, Twitter followers went in on her for dissing a fan, including one woman who said, ”This broad Lolo Jones has like 2.4 fans and she just told one of them to get a relaxer. Jesus take it.” Jones tried to respond to the backlash with this:
“If i had curly hair& she had hers straight and I told her to get a curly perm to mimic no one would cared but the other way ppl flip. #noted”
No dear, it’s the fact that you decided to clown someone who was trying to show you love on Halloween. The least you could have done was show love back. Do better–much better.
What do you think of all this, as well as Jones’ response to the backlash?
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Femi Emiola was born in Iowa City, Iowa, but raised in the Phillipines and Nigeria. When she was a teenager she returned to the US and attended Iowa State University where she studied theatre arts. She has also studied acting in New York City and is best known for her role on “Wicked Wicked Games.”
It’s truly sad that every time Lolo Jones is in the news, it’s for something completely unrelated to her sport(s). You may remember that initially she was a track star and then when she didn’t perform as expected in the 2008 and 2012 Olympics, coming in seventh place, she decided to pursue bobsledding. But her name is always in the headlines. She once challenged a former Rutgers football player to a race not realizing he was paralyzed. And most recently she inspired outrage when she compared Rachel Jeantel to Tyler Perry’s Madea.
Today, Lolo is in the news, once again, for fighting in the club. When I first heard the story I thought it was a rumor. But turns out it was true… though the level of fighting is up for debate.
Lolo Jones was involved in a nightclub altercation with the stepdaughter of a bobsledder hall of famer, Tony Carlino. The two got into an argument on Saturday at a popular club in Lake Placid, New York and had to be separated by bouncers.
As with any fight, things get blown out of proportion. Rumors swirled that Lolo knocked this unnamed woman out in the club. But the United States Bobsled and Skeleton Federation (USBSF) found no reason to sanction Jones.
The USBSF spokeswoman, Amanda Bird said they found no evidence to support the claim that Jones knocked the woman out. At this time they don’t believe Jones violated the team’s code of conduct. But the USBSF CEO, Darrin Steele says that this lack of punishment could change if they find new evidence. It also issued a warning saying this is why athletes should avoid even putting themselves in situations where things like this can happen.
Lolo has had more success in bobsledding, (she won a silver medal in the World Cup circuit) and will compete to be in one of three sled for next winter’s Olympics.
And today, Rachel Jeantel sat down with Joy Reid of theGrio and spoke on the backlash she received from the likes of Lolo Jones and others.
See what she had to say on the next page.
Humor can be very tricky to maneuver. I remember as a little girl watching friends and family members make jokes about people and everyone laughing. So I would join in, excited to be a contributor to the joy, and say something that would make everyone go: ”Awww… that was mean.” I couldn’t understand it at first. What was I saying that was any worse than what everyone else had already said. I didn’t realize then that though my intentions were just to add to the fun, I crossed a boundary into hurtful territory.
In life, there’s a thin line between many situations. There’s a thin line between love and hate, genius and madness, and certainly humor and disrespect. If you weren’t familiar with that thin line before, it probably illuminated itself when Lolo Jones sent that very unfortunate tweet at Rachel Jeantel’s expense. During such an emotionally charged situation people might try to bring some levity to a situation, but that tweet was just bad, on all fronts.
Twitter has become an epicenter of humor. Within 140 characters, people have been able to release clever quips that have helped paved their way to stardom (a la Kelly Oxford), or at least gain you loyal following. So sometimes twitter can take some back to the playground days of watching people joke and laugh at each and wanting to get in as well. Wanting to expose your comedic brilliance to the world, but there’s an important difference between stepping to the line, and crossing it.
For example, let’s take our Flavor of Love Season 1 Alum, Courtney Jackson, affectionally named by the chicken loving hype man, Flavor Flav, as “Goldie.” Goldie’s commentary on her season allowed her to parlay her word play into a field of stand-up comedy, and also host and provide commentary for other VH1 specials. So when Goldie was eliminated from “Charm School,” the then Dean, Mo’Nique, offered Courtney to tour and open for her show. All was well and good, until Goldie made a joke at Mo’Nique’s expense. Mo’Nique rescinded her offer, and now Goldie is…
What about the teacher who as a joke at the Tomb of the Unknown Soldier, took a picture giving the finger, and appearing to yell next to a sign that said: ”Silence and Respect.” The teacher, Lindsey Stone, wanted to poke fun at challenging authority. (She also took a picture the night before of her smoking in front of a “No Smoking” sign.) The joke might have been taken well if it was just a random park, but it is a monument to honor not just an unknown soldier, but to honor the memory of all soldiers who have been killed in battle.
Yes, the thirst for a few laughs is indeed real, and while it might seem like you’re about to just add to the fun, you have to be knowledgable about what you’re about to say or do and how it will affect others. Some of the most respected and funny comedians will step very close to a line, but not cross it, and that’s something that people should learn. Don’t allow yourself to get swept up in the possibility of a laugh, or a few follows by hurting someone else in the process. Because doors can be shut (Goldie) and jobs can be lost (Lindsey Stone). At the end, no one wins and you just end up being the one that people are laughing at, rather than with. So think before you tweet, and joke responsibly.
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Rachel Jeantel, Trayvon Martin’s friend who was on the phone with him moments before he was shot and killed by George Zimmerman, testified this week. Zimmerman is on trial for second degree murder for his February 2012 confrontation with Trayvon Martin.
Of course media outlets had a field day making a mockery of Jeantel’s testimony. The banter did not stem from the answers she gave but from her image. Rachel Samara of Russel Simmons’ Global Grind perceived Racel Jeantel as:
“raw, emotional, aggressive and hostile.”
She also went on to say :
“the white jury would not understand the teen’s demeanor. Especially not her defensive nature, and this will unfortunately work against her. Even though it shouldn’t.”
If that was not enough, The Smoking Gun went scooping through Jeantel’s Twitter for a section of their site called “BUSTER.” They went on to highlight deleted tweets from the teen that they categorized as incriminating or embarrassing.
Last but not least, the controversial Olympian, Lolo Jones had to put in her two cents about Rachel Jeantel:
Why did she tweet that? Jones received backlash from Twitter like it was going out of style.
Even Hip Hop scholar Dream Hampton jumped on the bandwagon :
Despite media backlash, support for Rachel Jeantel has been streaming on various social media sites. Check out BlackVoices’ slideshow on how people have been lifting up Rachel during this difficult time.
Things haven’t always been easy for track and field star Lolo Jones. After missing out on a medal at two consecutive Olympic games, Jones is turning over a new leaf. She’s the newest member of the U.S. national bobsled team and has hopes that this new venture will earn her a spot on the winner’s podium at the 2014 Winter Games. Here, Jones talks about how she’s reinventing herself and empowering others to do the same.
On learning her new sport, bobsledding:
At first I thought bobsled was just going to be something fun and refreshing for me, so I’m shocked that I really do love it a lot. I’m so passionate about track, so I never imagined that I would ever say I’m really passionate about bobsled, too. I’m shocked at how much it has helped me get stronger not only physically, but mentally as well. It’s done wonders.
On rumors that she’s just “desperate” for an Olympic medal:
They completely took my words out of context. When I heard those rumors, I was pretty frustrated because it was like here we go again with things being taken out of context. If you’re pursing an Olympic sport, who’s not trying to get a medal? I just stated the obvious and I said I was desperate but it was said in much more joking way.
You can check more of the Lolo Jones interview out over on Essence. She discusses where track fits in her life, her spirituality and her new “Degree” campaign.
Popularity And “Pretty” Contest: How Does Olympic Boxer Claressa Shields Win Gold But Not Receive One Endorsement?
In her eight-year boxing career, Olympic gold medalist Claressa Shields has never lost a single match and yet she still gets no respect. From Mother Jones:
“Maybe you remember Claressa “T-Rex” Shields: At 17, she was the youngest boxer in last summer’s Olympics, the first games to ever let women spar. Aggressive, spunky, and intensely focused, she trounced a Russian opponent twice her age in the finals to return home to Flint, Michigan, with a gold medal. “I wrapped it around my hand when I went to sleep,” Shields says. “I had this fear that when I woke up the medal was going to be silver.” Yet unlike fellow gold medalist Gabby Douglas, the teen gymnast who is expected to rake in $8-$12 million from sponsorships, Shields has received no national endorsement deals (though a local car lot gave her a custom black and gold Camaro). “I think because women’s boxing is new, I guess,” she says. “I don’t really know.”
If you have missed seeing Shields fight at the Olympics – or anywhere else for that matter- please stop reading right now and go search YouTube for some of her previous performances. The girl is phenomenal. And no shade to Gabby Douglas, but while we were, and still continue to, celebrate one little black girl’s historic achievements in one sport, we totally forgot about another black teen girl, about the same age as Douglas, who too made history at the Olympics. Not only is she the first African-American woman to win gold in boxing, but the first woman, period. Like Douglas, she too has an equally compelling story about adversity and triumph, including being both a black youth from inner city Detroit and a survivor of sexual assault. But yet and still you tell me that Shields has not been asked to cover one Wheaties box? Not to sound like an alarmist, but I really do believe that it is a national embarrassment that this young gladiator, who has worked hard, and with success, in service of our country is not reaping the financial benefits.
As Shields humbly said in the Mother Jones article, women’s Olympic boxing is pretty new, which might explain her lack of endorsements, however, but at least one boxer has managed to capture the attention of corporate America. Fellow women’s boxer and 2016 Olympic hopeful Mikaela Mayer recently became Dr. Pepper’s official spokesperson. In the soft drink’s television commercial, Mayer, who prior to boxing used to work as a full-time model says, “Millions of girls are told they’re pretty, but not many end up becoming a model. And even fewer decide to put their face in front of someone who wants to rearrange it. And now, instead of fighting for a cover shot, I’m Mikaela Mayer and I’m one of a kind.” Indeed, Mayer is one of a kind. Not only is she a beautiful former model but she is also a serious contender in the women’s boxing world. According to Team USA.org, Mayer has a laundry list of boxing achievements including being the 2011 National Golden Gloves Champion, being a gold medalist at the 2012 AMBC Continental Championships, and holding a bronze medal at the 2012 AIBA World Championships.
But despite the impressive resume and pretty much being favored to win a spot on the US Women’s boxing team, her bronze medal at the 2012 AIBA ended her bid to compete in the first Olympic boxing competition for women. Guess who did make the squad in 2012? Shields. And she won a gold medal. According to the Mother Jones article, Shield is currently training for not only the USA Boxing National Championship but the Rio Olympics in 2016, where she will be defending her current world title. She is also preparing for college. To borrow words from Mayer and Dr. Pepper, I definitely think that makes Shields “one of a kind.” But to simply bypass the first champion of an inaugural Olympic sport in favor of another athlete, who while accomplished, has not proven herself at the level of Shields, is bewildering to me. I mean, would you do a television commercial with the runner up of the Miss America beauty pageant? I think not.
We’ve seen this scenario played out many times before in women’s sports. If you’ll recall, during the 2012 Olympic games, Dawn Harper and Kellie Wells, silver and bronze medalists spoke openly about having their stories trampled over while the media hype machine favored Lolo Jones, who only placed fourth at the Olympic hurdles race. In an interview with NBC Sports, Harper said this of the virgin/model/sprinter:
“I feel I had a pretty good story — knee surgery two months before Olympic trials in 2008, to make the team but 0.007, not have a contract … working three jobs, living in a frat house, trying to make it work. Coming off running in someone else’s shoes getting the gold medal. Uhhh, I’d say I was pretty interesting. Coming from East St. Louis…I just felt as if I worked really hard to represent my country in the best way possible, and to come way with the gold medal, and to honestly seem as if, because their favorite didn’t win all of sudden it’s just like, ‘Were going to push your story aside, and still gonna push this one.’ That hurt. It did. It hurt my feelings. But I feel as if I showed I can deal with the pressure, I came back, and I think you kinda got to respect it a little bit now.”
Harper and Wells thought their medals would earn them respect, but instead they were labeled and dismissed as haters. And that’s a pity considering that they had a legitimate point: It takes a considerable amount of dedication and sacrifice in order to rise to the level of Olympic athlete. Harper was not lying when she said she lived in a frat house – it was the only thing that she and her husband, who too is an Olympic athlete, could afford while training full-time for the 2008 games in which she won her gold medal in the 100-meter hurdles. So I can imagine that for athletes like Harper, who have reached the highest degree, an Olympic gold should warrant a few chances to recuperate, if not profit, off of all the time, energy, physical health and personal money you put into this mission. From a personal perspective, I can’t imagine slaving away on a project at work and have my supervisor come along and give accolades to another employee, who didn’t carry the project to fruition, all because my boss likes him/her better.
It is kind of depressing that even in the world of women’s sports – a place that implies some sort of exclusion from sexist influence – standard troupes of femininity, over skill and accomplishments, still matter in what is marketable. Not only are athletes like Shields, Harper and Wells being shut out of opportunities to capitalize off of their hardwork, but athletes like Mayer, Jones and in some respects, Gabby Douglas are being paraded around by both the media and corporate advertising as some sort of poster children for what a female athlete is supposed to look like. And that suggests to me that the general public still can not fully take women in sports seriously. I mean, how can we celebrate these women for breaking barriers and making history in the world of sports while using the other hand to reinforce subtle messages that your personal appeal, more than likely physical, will always trump your talent?
In honor of Black History Month, MadameNoire is sending a daily salute to the African American women who inspire us every day of the year. Today we’re recognizing the black women athletes who make us proud everywhere from the tennis courts to the track, the balance beams, and the swimming pool.
Venus and Serena Williams
Venus and Serena Williams took the tennis world by storm when the two brown girls from Compton with braid and beads showed up on the courts and dominated their opponents. Venus has been ranked World No. 1 in singles by the Women’s Tennis Association on three separate occasions, and when she was named so in 2002 for the first time, she became the first African American woman to achieve be given then title during the Open Era. Venus is also a four-time Olympic gold medalist and as of February 2013, is ranked number 22 in the world in singles.
Like her big sister, Serena has also ranked up a number of World No. 1 rankings — five to be exact since July 2002. Serena is the only female player to have won over $40 million in prize money and she is regardedas one of the greatest tennis players of all time, having won 30 Grand Slam titles and four Olympic Gold medals.
A lot of my friends thought I was kidding — or crazy –when they heard that my fiancé and I were not having sex until we got married.
It was a decision we had made separately before we even started dating. The response I got from people who knew of our decision confirmed my suspicion that sex is no longer widely viewed as an option in dating relationships, but a requirement and is actually considered by most as a prerequisite to marriage. This is why celebrity couples like Meagan Good and Devon Franklin made headlines when they announced they were engaged and celibate. We already knew that Meagan had committed to abstain until marriage, but for some odd reason that commitment was expected to be disregarded when in a serious relationship. We believe that celibate women can’t possibly get engaged and when they are, it’s shocking.
In fact, for some odd reason, many believe that celibate women — especially the Christian ones — are sitting in convents, wrapped in nun outfits, proudly announcing they’re married to Jesus.
I first noticed this in my own life when people would ask me if my fiance and I kiss. They figured if we weren’t fornicating then we weren’t kissing either. Granted, there are some people who do wait until their wedding day to have their first kiss and five million people watch them eat each other’s faces. These couples fit squarely into the fallacious stereotype that people who wait until marriage to have sex are young, naive, and childlike.
We’re comfortable with those stereotypes because we’ve been brainwashed to believe that having indiscriminate sex is normal and adults who are celibate are not normal.
Personally, I was faced with my own erroneous beliefs when I learned that my then-boyfriend (now husband) was a virgin. Though I met him at church, I was still thoroughly shocked. I was celibate, but I didn’t think I knew any men who were real-life virgins. “But…you’re handsome, you have a great personality, you’re educated, you have a solid career, you have your own house, you’re over 30…” my list of reasons why he couldn’t possibly be a virgin went on and on. Unbeknownst to me, I had internalized the propaganda that no man hits 25 without dropping trou unless he looks and acts like Steve Carell in “40-Year-Old Virgin”.
Sadly, many people in the nation share this flawed thinking. We are taught that abstaining from sex means abstaining from living. Celibate people — especially virgins — are expected to be prude, unattractive, homely, recluses who are probably asexual. When celebrities like Tim Tebow and Lolo Jones come along with their “I’m a virgin” confession thus publicly catapulting all negative stereotypes into oblivion, the press doesn’t know how to react.
Do you remember when Tim Tebow was chosen by Jockey for an endorsement contract and he was dubbed “the unlikeliest underwear model ever”? Though, many athletes endorse undergarments, apparently, the fact that this athlete wasn’t tossing off his briefs in the presence of groupies made him an odd choice.
In a borderline bitter and excessively harsh piece on Lolo in the New York Times published recently, author Jere Longman said:
Jones has decided she will be whatever anyone wants her to be — vixen, virgin, victim — to draw attention to herself and the many products she endorses.
In 2009, Jones posed nude for ESPN the Magazine. This year, she appeared on the cover of Outside magazine seeming to wear a bathing suit made of nothing but strategically placed ribbon. At the same time, she has proclaimed herself to be a 30-year-old virgin and a Christian.
In that last line, you can practically see the sarcasm dripping off the page as though virginity means anything other than “never had sex”. As far as her Christianity, that’s for another article, but I will say that most of the beef with Lolo on the “virgin and Christian” front isn’t coming from Christians or virgins. The loudest criticism is from those who wish to portray Christians and virgins in a particular fashion and are outright pissed that Lolo Jones isn’t the embarrassing caricature often portrayed on television and instead is actually a normal athlete who happens to refrain from sex. Furthermore, just because she is a virgin doesn’t mean she isn’t a vixen. The term simply means “sexually attractive” and, like we try to explain to rapists, finding a woman Hot doesn’t mean she owes you sex.
It’s not just Lolo Jones either who is criticized for not fitting some arbitrary definition. When Meagan Good announced she was celibate, the tongue-wagging reached epic proportion. One publication asked:
“How exactly do you balance that with being a self-proclaimed party animal and being slizzed on the club scene in [skimpy] outfits all the time?”
Balance what? Not having sex with still having typical Hollywood rich-chicks fun? What activity automatically means sex…except sex? Partying doesn’t. Modeling for an underwear company doesn’t. Even posing nude in ESPN’s famous “Body Issue” doesn’t. Just because someone does these things yet refrains from sex doesn’t make him or her a fraud. It just make the naysayers look like imbeciles.
In my opinion, the instances when someone’s sex life or chastity makes news simply serves to expose the ridiculous and sad ideas that prevail in this nation. When Jada Pinkett and Will Smith talk about enjoying sex with each other, that makes headlines (and draws ire) because we believe that marriage is the end of sex. And when someone who isn’t married isn’t having sex, that makes news (and also draws criticism) because apparently we’re all animals running around foaming at the mouth for our next hump. It’s so backward and bizarre.
Celibacy is not a way of dress or a way of speaking or a description reserved for a man or woman that nobody wants to sleep with. Being celibate simply means abstaining from sex — and there’s absolutely nothing abnormal about that.
Do you think people have preconceived notions about what celibacy looks like?
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