Are you single and you don’t want to be single? There are reasons for that. Mmmhmmm. Sometimes it is your fault. Let’s just put that out there right now.  You can’t fix something if you don’t acknowledge that it’s broken, right? Right. So, let’s delve into these possible reasons why you’re single. Don’t be mad if a little mirror pops up on one of these reasons.

Let’s get it!

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Thoughts take me to when we were close, addicted to your love feel I need another dose. -Common

G, game, mack, the Jones — many have pondered the question Who Has More G, men or women? Societal myths paint us a picture of the articulate, spiritually fed, playboy bachelor whose knack for words, soft-spoken demeanor and inviting eyes make the ladies melt like Hershey’s Kisses in the palm of your hand. The arrogant male has yet to realize that the true game comes from the woman who allowed him to believe that his suave approach is what sealed the deal, has boasted this falsehood. Men’s egos have been hoodwinked, run-a-muck, led astray for the true game, the real macks are the beautiful women whom men chase.

Law 21 of Robert Greene’s “48 Laws of Power” clearly states ‘Play a Sucker to Catch a Sucker. Seem Dumber than your Mark’. What women have done is created this mirage where they “allow” men to lead. It’s not because men are more intelligent, it’s because when men think they’re in control they are blinded to the fact that they are being controlled. Think about how the inflection of a woman’s voice changes when they talk to men. How they look into our eyes and our ego tells us that we have them in the palm of our hands. It’s not that women are disingenuous but they are skilled at playing on the man’s vanity.

Think of how many wars have been started, how many men have been slaughtered over women. We men have no claims to wars that we’ve started, maybe 3-way phone conversations that end up putting all our business in the streets, but no wars. If men really had more G, then said phone conversations and gossip would cease to exist because women would know their place in the overall scope of said situation. A woman’s sidepiece never gets out of line. He’s got too much to lose, if she gets caught out there he’ll lie for her, now that’s true G. Men’s jump-off’s always get out of pocket, why, because they can. Between the power of the p**** and their innate abilities to express love and reel us in. A woman’s jump-off could end up wifing her because she makes him believe that the other man didn’t appreciate her not the other way around. Now that’s G.

Here’s an example of the G of women. Man walks woman through the forest as the moonlight shines through the trees. As they talk he tells her how he feels about her, they smile and laugh together. She caresses his face, looks into his eyes and assures him that what he thinks is weird is actually what makes him unique.

Now who had more G? The man with the fantasy walk through the dark forest while the moonlight shines onto her face. He told her how he felt, even if it was a lie, he set the mood for her and set himself aside from the rest of men who just wanted to bang her anywhere that they could.

Or did the woman have more G? Remember the guy created that dark, Hot walk but really she had subconsciously put that type of walk in his mind. Not just her but men’s mothers and women in general who challenge men to treat ladies differently than the average dope. Point. She used her hands to caress his face while appealing to his ego and making him feel as if at that very moment he was all that mattered.

The person with the game is the person who left the other feeling empowered. Having done that, that person has secured that this person will continue to act in a way that pleases them and pleases their inner beauty.

So the next time ol’ boy is laying in the bed, after some feel good sex, Kool-Aid smile and all like ‘I just tore it up,’ pay attention to the conversation after the sex, see who empowers whom, see whose mood is natural and calm, comfortable and ready to discuss what ever comes to mind. If he’s already asleep before all that then you, madame,  have the G, not the other way around.

‘Tis the season to be loved! But wait: isn’t that every season? Should you wait until Val’s Day or some “special” occasion to feel your absolute best? Of course not. Here are some “love mantras” that you can recite whether you’re single, in a relationship, engaged, married or widowed. There’s something in here for everyone!

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