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so basically you have covered all types of men then? what an idot.

Wow, the woman that wrote this article seems angry and bitter – and misandristic.

But what’s remarkable is that this article seems to be a form of black woman projection – because I always see these same traits in not just black women, but it can be applied to women of other races as well:

Page 2 – Like the “independent woman” who thinks all men are “intimidated” by her (page 2).

Page 3 – I admit that this tends to apply more to *some* black men than it does to *some* black women. That being said, I have heard of black women that say that they do not date black guys.

Page 4 -Secondly, who has never met the “artist” bohemian woman that considers herself “earthy” and “evolved” . But I find it interesting that she tells the him “don’t judge” – WHILE JUDGING HIM! And it’s interesting because first she attacks a man for being too educated & professional (page 2), and then for being too artistic.

Page 5 – easily applies to female “minor celebs.” Egotistical behavior among those that are “famous” knows no gender lines.

Page 6 – The “Pretty Boy” is noticed because most men aren’t like this – always looking in the mirror and fancying himself. However, most women are like this, and always looking in the mirror, which is why we don’t pick on it when women do it. The “Pretty Boy” is simply a man with the same level of self-absorption as the average woman.

Page 7 – Easily no different than the yoga fitness guru pilates woman who shops at Whole Foods every day and chastises her boyfriend eating hamburgers.

Page 8 – Wow! This is the most hypocritical of then all. Given the fact that most women today still expect men to pay for everything, the fact is we have to jump through hoops to not disappoint her with some low-class restaurant. Men ALWAYS have to deal with unsatisfied bourgeois women who think the guy is “cheap” because he isn’t spending $100 on a meal for two people every night.

As I said before, this article seems to be a grand-scale projection of women’s “arrogance” regarding the dating scene. Because not only will most men attest to experiencing one or more of these traits from women they’ve dated, but I would also make the argument that these “stereotypes” are more associated with women moreso than men. It’s usually guys that want to save money and eat at Denny’s, rather than the woman wanting him to take her to “La Fleur Francais Au Restaurant” in which they serve things he’s never seen or heard of before.

And I hope these are stock photos this woman is using – many of these men in these photos may be nothing like who is she libeling & smearing in her rants.

R Wilson you can’t even spell correctly. Did u finish highschool? U type like a caveman. This article is about arrogance. I’m a black woman & I love myself what type if black women do u hang around for u to make such an ignorant assumption? Cause there’s a saying for assuming the wrong thing. Don’t get big & bad behind that cheap keyboard of yours. Learn to stfu is the number one thing your mother forgot to mention to you.

One of the best articles ever written on this website…and a welcome departure from all those “how to get a man” articles. 

Firstly I’d like to thank the writer for that picture of Mr. Howard. Damn good eye candy.

This list can go either way I know both women and men like this. Superficiality at it’s best. Folks with these qualities do NOT bother me at all usually because all the posturing and putting on airs is just to hide some sort of insecurity. They have to make you look bad in order to make themselves look better. And that one about Mr. Bourgeois? I find that some are usually the ones pretending to be so sophisticated and refined because…. They’re broke as hell living paycheck to paycheck behind on the rent and stunt all their money on keeping up appearances. Complete joke.