Yes why dont african-american women cook? Ethiopian women do !

Daywalker, I am going to try to come to your rescue and place a positive spin on your statement. I am a somewhat older woman and I love to cook. My children are adults and I am divorced but I still cook on a regular. I have friends and other women that I know who maybe the same age or closer not only do they not cook but many will admit that thwy do not know how to cook. I have a very  good friend of 30 years, children have grown up and left home and she will tell you that she have no intentions of spending anymore time in the kitchen. She will go out and buy dinner for the man first. Therefore, the saying of “A way to the man’s heart is through his stomach,” has taken flight and no long exist. Ladies, the bedroom is good but if you want to keep him coming back for more, create your best moves in the kitchen.

I don’t know why so many people are disagreeing with this post. The average man is looking for all of these qualities in a potential wife. Personality, loyalty, and the maintaining of sexual distance until once in an established relationship is what separates a girlfriend from a “friend with benefits”. When you go out to meet a new girl whom you may or may not be looking for a relationship with, what qualities do you look for? Well, they certainly have to be attractive, in your opinion. Definitely have to have a personality. And if she’s unfaithful, why would you even waste your time trying? You never go up to a potential girlfriend and query about her family relations or her ability to cook. Doing so would be ridiculous. If a man asked me this, I would probably laugh at him. 

And honestly, please stop with the racist comments. They’re really immature and degrading to white people as well. You think you calling a black person ugly makes you any better? Nope. Not at all. I, as a white woman, find many black people attractive. I am not necessarily attracted TO them, but they’re really good-looking. Of course, there’s a few in the mix that make you want to poke your eyes out, but there’s people like that in every ethnicity known to man and then some. You make white people look bad. We’re not all racist. And for you to take it upon yourself to make that statement is highly ignorant. You’re just another stupid redneck that’s upset ’cause the North won the Civil War, right? Grow up. Go on somewhere you stupid wanker. 

Also, I’d like to point out…”Women are supposed to marry higher up.” That’s completely stupid. So all women are meant to be gold-diggers? What the frick?! Seriously, did your mum tell you that when you’re all grown up, “don’t give up your goodies until he gives up his”? That’s dumb. Nobody is ever meant to marry “higher up”. It’s marrying the person that makes you better, happy, and fall in love all over again that matters. I will be married for a year on the 25th of March and I love every second of it. My husband literally completes me. He’s my best friend, not some rich guy who bought my “love”.

“Women are supposed to marry higher up,” your
leading statement is too vague and general. What do you mean when you say; “Women
are supposed to marry higher up?” Suppose by whose rule book? Where did you
pick up this little tablet of street wisdom?

Given you believe what you say; “am I to
understand” that you bring to the table equal value? Experience, income,
knowledge, energy, resourcefulness, intellect!

When you say “higher up, rather than [equal to] am
I to understand your position to be hypocritical?  

Get a grip Tina . . . I am one of those “higher
ups” that you suggest. And no, I neither any of my peers would even consider
the likes of you. It is not your social economic status that makes you
unattractive as a lifetime partner . . . it’s your lack of moral character!

Take a look in the mirror . . . it shows!