How To Rid Yourself of Those Trust Issues, For Good

October 19th, 2012 - By Jazmine Denise Rogers

Overcoming trust related issues is one of the biggest challenges that a couple can come up against. It is an emotionally draining  situation for both parties involved and unfortunately plays a major role in the demise of many relationships. Having been a person who has struggled with trust in the past, I realize that this can sometimes be a difficult mindset to break away from; however it is not impossible. If you find that you too struggle with trusting your partner, here are a few tips that just may help you out.

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  • dazed

    How can you really tell the difference between women’s intuition,which is very real, and being paranoid?

  • dazed

    this article came right on time. It turns out that my ex BF had a whole other girlfriend that he was with for the last 3 years, I guess I was the side chick although he said other wise. He really had me thinking he was different and special. He made me feel special to but in the end I felt like a fool and that he was just laughing at me the whole time. I can say that my women’s intuition helped me figure that out. We went on tips together, he had the key to my house, i cooked an was a great girlfriend. I’m not being fair to My new BF because every time he doesn’t pick up the phone or answer my text i instantly think he is with another girl. It is VERY VERY hard not to think this way but i’m still not sure what a good guy looks/acts like anymore. I think the thing is that…… everything is an act to me? I want a guy that’s faithful like all women but I’m afraid that I’ll never see it if its in front of my face. Along with disrupting my health My greatest fear is looking like a fool AGAIN.. but i guess ill get over that too… if it happens

  • dardata

    My comment may not help the insecure, so I apologize in advance. The author states whats the worst that can happen? Really! How about a life long STD and possible death! When I worry about being cheated on its not about being alone or recovering from the relationship – its that thought of the Doc saying you are positive… Don’t get me wrong, as a man and im sure for any gender – the thought of another man tappin my girlfriend or wife as if he was me is psychologically devastating, but self preservation trumps all, so excuse my occasional preemptive questioning or if the wrath is provoke and manifest in a reactionary choke then so be it.

    When you commit to someone you are essentially putting your life in their hands. This is a MAJOR, bigger than buying a house or getting married so forgive me for questioning you because im concerned about my LIFE! im just saying…

    • Miss K

      STANDING OVATION to you! I’ve witnessed first hand the devastating effects stepping out can have on the health of both partners! I am blessed to say that I was simply a witness to this hurt. My future partner/spouse will have to understand how important this is to me for reasons beyond the emotional. Unfortunately, there are no guarantees when it some to trust.

    • http://www.yourtango.com/users/cheekee-baby cheekee baby

      I was thinking the same thing. You can get over the betrayal what you may not get over is whatever they brought home. That’s why I have a zero tolerance when it comes to that. My feelings will heal, my body may not.

  • Ebony

    Thanks, loved the article!

  • Tamz

    Good article.

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