You Should Take Things Slow, But How Slow Is Too Slow? 7 Signs You’ve Been Put In The Dreaded “Gray Zone”

Months and Months Go By But The Conversation Is The Same

I’m not one to tell people how long they should wait for a person to commit to them. Some people can’t do more than a few months, other people, I’ve seen them hold on for about a year or more. But everybody starts to wonder at some point and time: “Soooooo, where is this going??” “Am I wasting my time???” It’s nice when two people are on the same page and letting things flow, but when you’re the individual waiting in the wings for the other person to pick the “right time” or when they claim to be ready, that’s not so much fun. You’re probably in gray zone territory when the person you’ve been holding on to for months upon months keeps telling you they’re just trying to take things slow (Note: it’s gray because they’re not saying they don’t want you, but they’re also saying they don’t want you right now…).