So,You Acted a Fool, Now What? 6 Ways to Move Past Your Spazz Out

August 15th, 2012 - By Veronica Wells

Our goal is for Madame Noire to be a “no judgment” zone, so this is not going to be some type of lecture. But rather, a way for us to learn from our own bad behavior– or the bad behavior of others and do better. That being said, many of us have had moments in our romantic relationships that we’re less than proud of. Maybe you went extreme like Jazmine Sullivan and bust the windows out his car, maybe you started hooping and hollering in public causing an unnecessary scene, or maybe you tried to challenge his masculinity by talking down to him or even coming at his temple with two extended fingers. Whatever you did, you’re sorry and frankly embarrassed. Hopefully, your little indiscretion hasn’t resulted in your arrest, and you want to make it better and move on. Here are a few ways to get you started.

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  • Reese

    As someone who has acted a fool I needed this list. I lost friendships, my reputation, and my damn mind behind a man. At this point, I’m just trying to learn from the past, move on, and start anew.

  • bkabbagej

    “Our goal is for “Madame Noire”, to be a “no Judgement zone”, is a hypocritical statement after I just read an artical by another one of your reporters (Alissa Henry) making comments about a very public spazzing of two very famous artist (Rihanna and Chris Brown). The reporter went on to say this artist’s (Rihanna), response to calling the person she ended up spazzing out with “her best friend” was perplexing and that her statement was evidence of love and relationships being warped in our community”. Then under the LOVE section of todays articles you have an article describing the very same behavior Chris Brown and Rihanna are attributed to displaying and calling them indescretions I don’t understand, is the women’s perspective of this behavior explainable and if it’s male behavior he’s not worthy of any consideration.

  • Zettai

    I needed this today.

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  • linda

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  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=641083204 Lily Torres

    Great article. I kept reading patiently waiting for DO NOT REPEAT! And, tehre it was in the last part. Loved this article, simple realistic and to the point.

  • L-Boogie

    As someone who was accused on acting a fool, I hate it. Everyone listens to someone else but did not listen to me. Eff this list.

  • L-Boogie

    As someone who was accused on acting a fool, I hate it. Everyone listens to someone else but did not listen to me. Eff this list.

  • Ooh La La

    This has nothing to do with the article, but man it really irks my nerves when people say “Bay” instead of “Babe”…

    • vwells1

      LOL yes! I specifically used it to illustrate how irritating she’s being.