Listen Up Fellas! 7 Signs SHE’s Just Not That Into You

July 17th, 2012 - By Julia Austin

 

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If you meet someone online, are set up on a blind date or just ask someone out who you’ve never met before, it’s not that tough to tell if she likes you. If you never knew each other before, there is little pressure to sugar coat things. If she’s not feeling you, she just won’t call you back or she’ll drop the “Let’s just be friends line.” The tricky situation involves the woman you already know as a friend or acquaintance. Since it can be torture to see a woman week in and week out that you’re trying to take things to the next level with, but don’t know whether or not to cross that line, let’s put you out of your misery, shall we?

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  • www.facebook.com/realdeeplove

    these are all facts… however some ladies turn back and start being into him… so what do you say about this?

  • Ally

    Madame Noire…the ads?? really?? very irritating and I won’t be in any hurry to click on an article because of it.

  • KamJos

    Ooh I’m guilty of some of these with a guy that’s into me. And yes I have told him I’m not interested but he keeps pursuing. I need to find a way to kindly tell him that not only do I not like him, but that there is no chance of us ever happening.

  • amansview

    Rather than playing these sophomoric games, it would be easier if women just clearly said that they were not interested. Men are not mind readers. There is such a thing as the gentle letdown. At least then, the man would not waste his time pursuing what is ultimately a dead end.

    • Morning Rain

      Some of us do and then we are told that we are lying.

      Nobody is a mind reader, but one would have to be pretty dense to not see when someone isn’t interested in them.

    • Angel

      I’ve said everything from no thank you, to you’ll find someone for you but I’m not that someone..& then I get annoyed & change my approach from nice to just really what more do I have to say or do to let you know that I don’t want you and never will…. & even then they’ll still pursue…a lot of men can’t handle the truth as they claim they can..

  • FAMURattler85

    I’ve done every last one of these.

  • FattyFatKimye

    Hey, my man doesn’t mind me going out in jeans and t-shirt with flip-flops because he goes casual too. He rather for me to be natural and be myself than be fake and have to dress to impress, he hates fakes.

    • randomtandem

      but he’s your man so he already knows you’re into him lol

  • Ladybug94

    I couldn’t get through this article. The page turning and the ad starting up every time you turn the page; it’s frustrating. Forget it.

    • FattyFatKimye

      If you got Google Chrome, get Adblock, it works.

  • louvwhine

    Great! A homosexual offering advice to hetero couples.

  • busty

    I’m sick of these types or articles! They are so recycled! I’m sick of clicking! I did not even bother clicking!!