He’s Just Not That Into You: 9 Lines That Simply Mean He Doesn’t Like You

June 16th, 2012 - By Julia Austin
"Stressed out man"

minglecity.com

I’m still heartbroken

He might be, but a man knows what he wants and he knows that the last thing to tell a girl he’s fallen for, is that he just broke up with someone. Guys are smarter than that. If he’s hurting, but he likes you, he’s not going to tell you about his recent heartbreak. So, if he does pull this line, he is using it to his disadvantage (in terms of getting you to like him.) In other words, he is using it to his advantage.

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  • gentlemenadvocate

    i STRONGLY disagree with this list and feel that whoever wrote this article is misleading people! some of these “lines” are valid. i am married with a kid and i can idenutify with alot of the lines that you would tell a person. everything doesnt have to be red hot! sometimes, men need time and space and time to take it all in! some men dont want to put it all out there. some men are shy! some men are gentlemen! give me a break!

  • nunaya bizz

    You wrote on #3 “you going to tell me that if someone you were madly in love with and who you got perfectly along with walked into your life, you’d say, “I’m just not looking for a relationship right now?”

    YES, that is EXACTLY what I’d say and I’d MEAN IT! All I have under my ribs is a dried up piece of roadkill where my heart USED to be, it wouldn’t be fair to them or myself to avail myself to a relationship. Isn’t that the right thing to do, especially if I REALLY liked them? Don’t call bullshyte on me, you don’t know me! Work on your damn self!

  • Ray C

    I can only semi-agree with this article. I usually agree with most articles, but the “he might not be into you” type ones are the only ones I ever have disagreement with. For instance not looking for a relationship. Do you know how many women I know who end up in relationships when they’re not really looking and were actually upfront about it? Sometimes you do go through a phase where you’re enjoying the single life but that doesn’t mean there isn’t someone in the back of your mind. Also, the one about the guy being busy, I guess that’s a double-standard. I know plenty of women who early on acted like they had to find time to “get around” to the guy they’re in a relationship or married to now. We all make decisions that are not the best for us at times. A theme in a lot of these articles is “if he really likes you, he will change his whole life around and move heaven and earth for you.” Though I think that’s true to an extent, I think it does set some people up for unrealistic expectations.

  • ashley aubrey

    For Slide #4 of this article, I think the word you might be looking for is repititous or workaholic instead of “masochist.” That word has a meaning that doesn’t fit the description

  • TrueStory

    So ….. taking it slow = bad. I want to have sex with you = bad. Yeah, you don’t know what you’re talking about, frankly. If a woman reads into signs like the writer does, assuming the worst-case scenario, then that says oodles of negative things about the person’s personality. No one wants to be around anyone who always makes negative rash judgements, and that’s possibly why guys are running in the opposite direction.