Watch Your Mouth! Things You Should Never Say To Your Man

April 7th, 2012 - By Brooke Dean

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1. Your Mama…

Speaking ill of a man’s mother may get you choked out – it’s that simple. No one wants to hear anything bad about their mother (or father for that matter) – even if what you’re saying could be true. Being disrespectful , or speaking negatively about a family member near and dear to his heart will not only hurt his feelings or make him angry, but it may make him question whether or not you are someone he can or should have in his life. Unless he’s Norman Bates, belittling or complaining about his mother will only draw him closer to her and away from you. Keep your opinion of her to yourself, and find a respectful way to communicate any concerns you have about his mother so that he can address it himself.

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  • Ladyjo

    I feel a lot of those things, but don’t say them I don’t want to hurt his feelings… But enough already you have to be able bring something to table, think for yourself (figure it out) and please don’t cry…

  • Eestoomuch

    how about and article entitled…”if you hear these words coming from a man…run!”

    my recent ex LIED about the death of his father…ok, he’s dead to you…but i am just saying…death…you do NOT play with…smh…that nicca was TRI-Polar!

  • Dave

    truly enlightening!! I am guilty of being a very mouthy woman . I disguise it a being “opinionated” but Im starting to see how its really just disrespectful and hurtful to my significant other , Thank you!

  • Dee

    When a women thinks or says these things she knows deep down that she does not want the dude any more. Its ok to say them as long as you know that the relationship has come to an end. The punk probably needs to hear them. 

    • Nope!

      Then leave! He was not a punk when you did want him or was he and why did you want him if he was? Unless he does not give a damn about your words you will have him crumbling on the inside. And if you wanted to hurt him and make yourself feel ok by doing it you are just as much a punk as he is.

      • Dee

        I was joking when I used the word punk. My point was when a relationship gets to that point it should be over. All the respect is gone and what good will come from degrading another person. I have in the heat of the moment done it and felt horrible after. Peace to you

  • RedButterfly81

    Other things you should never say to a man:
    Get a job
    You’re a mama’s boy
    Dinner is at the store
    Do your own laundry
    All you do is eat, sleep, s**t and play your stupid video games all day
    Your s e x is so bad I fake it
    I need to watch my stories, go watch baseball at your friend house
    Cook your own damn dinner
    I’m pregnant
    I pay all the bills and you waste my light and gas as if you’re paying for it!
    And last but not least…I want to be married

    Say those things and they’ll run for the hills, LMAO!

    • LaLaLaMeansILoveYou

       Or how about “Things you should never say to your HUSBAND”…because only for my husband is it my job to cook his dinner and do his laundry lol. Your “man” however, should learn to do these things for himself until he is “man” enough to put a ring on that thing.

      I personally believe this is the main reason for the low marriage rate…all the “girlfriends” doing “wifely” duties…why SHOULD he wanna marry you if he’s already getting the husband treatment for free?? just sayin…

      • Biauncabrock

        Omg!! Soooo true!! I slowed dwn real quick wen I did do wifey thingz, I thgt I wuz doing the wrong thing 4 slowing my own self down..

      • Mahoghany21

        Often times many women lose out on good men because they feel that they have to hold back in a sense before they get married. Speaking as a married woman I feel that this is a damaging thought process. How the hell do you expect someone to decide if they want to marry you? If you never cook, clean or wash his clothes, how can he envision you doing them when your married? I’m not saying you have to be susie home maker. Its different strokes for different folks. I feel that instead of holding a playing card until we feel the man is ready to marry us, how about we sit down and communicate in the START of the relationship what our expectations are. Only a sorry man would pass up a dedicated women who is attentative to his needs. I guarentee if a man is the one, he’ll dedicate himself to you and return your hard work.

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  • SHW

     You should have an article “Things You Should NEVER Say To Your Child!” as well – otherwise a good article!

    • KM320

      I agree!!  You hear people saying some of the craziest things to their kids…