Sweet or Needy: Which Are You?

February 27, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin
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A woman’s biggest fear is coming off as needy. Why else would we be taught exactly when to respond to a text, when it’s okay to ask a guy out, when it’s okay to say, “I love you” for the first time? It’s engrained in our minds, put the breaks on. So, want to know if you’re being needy or just sweet in your relationship?

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  • Samirah

    I disagree with 9. You may get Angry because women have needs just like men. It would only be an issue if it happens often because men ALWAYS gotta have it. If they don’t , red flag.

  • msBootsy

    wuh oh…. i’m needy AND married…. time to shape up or ship out lol

  • Aanekosikie

    Iḿ sweet 

  • applesauce585

    “Sweet” that’s me.  Being needy or dating someone too needy drains your energy.  I aint got time for that! lol

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  • wiser now

    I am so needy!  I fit all of those.  I know it’s because he’s been doing some dirt and as a result, I’ve become dependent.  Calling up a therapist in 5…4…3…2..1!

  • NVAdamzz

    They need to make one of these for men cuz my man is TOOOOOO needy. It drives me effing nuts!!!! I can’t stand needy people. That’s why I quit food service. 😀

    • Tee

      Aww he probably just loves you and your just so awesome! ;).

      • NVAdamzz

        There’s a heartwarming thought, Tee! However, his constant need for reassurance, him constantly calling and getting mad because I call (not hang out with, because I don’t have time to, but CALL) my friends is just tooooo much. He’s gotten better with the calling but he still has this thing where he needs me to “prove my willingness” because he doesn’t feel secure in our relationship. Like OOOOOHHHH MYYYY GOOOOOOODDDDDDD!!

        • LoraJ1218

          run! it only gets worse! i know! been there, done that!

          • NVAdamzz

            Girl I’m out of that relationship. I dumped him prolly a little while after I wrote that. Needless to say he didn’t take it well but it was great for me. Sometimes when I think about it I wish I could break up with him over and over again because it felt so good to get my freedom back! Lol!!

  • pashunfruit

    used to have needy tendencies but grew out of them as my tolerance for BS depreciated  =)

  • Mariah

    i’m sweet but it’s been so long since i’ve had a decent relationship i can see where i am becoming needy…Lord, help me.

  • StuckInDaMatrix

    I’m needy!

  • LaTasha

    most definitely sweet!!!