7 Things Most Couples Do Too Soon

January 20, 2012 ‐ By Julia Austin


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They say that love makes you feel invincible. And that’s a problem because, well, no one is ever invincible. But they make decisions based on that false feeling, and can end up feeling like fools. When you’re in the early stages of a relationship and are falling head over heels, the things you and your new mate reveal and do with each other can make and break a couple with the quickness. While people do these seven things all the time, we wouldn’t recommended it for the sake of your new boo-ship:

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  • Guestest

    Everything i thought that would be on the list, wasn’t on there. Like moving in together and saying “I love you.”

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  • RenJennM

    You forgot move in together too soon!

  • MixedUpInVegas

    I’m not so sure about #1.  Taking a trip together makes it hard to hide your warts from each other.  On a trip you are with each other 24/7 and can see how each person handles stress and how well you can get along together.  If he has annoying habits that you can’t handle or you are unpleasant to be around when you are under stress, best to know that sooner rather than later.  If, on the other hand, you two can enjoy yourselves and work together to make a vacation a fun experience, then that’s a very good sign.

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  • promethean_dreams

    I am demanding to know just how long the author has been married.  I don’t take relationship advice from anyone with less than a decade of marriage under their belt. 

    • Candacey Doris

      There are plenty of people who have been married for 15 years and are just waiting for that kid to turn 18 to have the divorce. Length of marriage is not always a good indicator of a good relationship. I’d rather take info from a person with a short, amazing relationship than take it from someone with a long crappy relationship.

  • devildog808


    They sometime barely know each other for who they are or what they think about themselves or the world in general but, they can tell you about each other’s “bed game”!

    • Lvlylady74

      I was wondering why that wasn’t number1.

    • Liish

      Amen! this should’ve been number 1. Having a child from said sex should be number 2!!

    • TheMermaid

      Those things can b done and yet the relationship can work. I slept quickly, moved in, traveled, met the close ppl in his life…. Still together and happily in it! Because we did it but we took the time (brief) to know each other hearts.

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  • Itskimesha

    Love this! Good advice

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  • Phoenix Reign

    1-7 can happen at any time of the relationship eg: showing their abusive side. Here’s the thing, people have smartened up, if they like a person enough they will wait years before they show their bad sides. I’d rather be shown how much of a butt hole u are in three weeks rather than to wait 6 months, had put in time and feelings and to have significantly lessened my chances of getting back on that dating scene because now I have to “heal” which could take a month or few, give excuse after excuse to friends and family, erase this, delete that, change this statuse on this social network, try to see if Twon still available because he did send me flowers when the jerk I wasted time with didn’t even get me a card because he got comfortable LMAO see where I’m going with this?! It can happen at any dating period and doesn’t mean anything more or less, it’s who people are